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> Observers must believe the nonconforming individual is both aware of the norm and able to conform to it, but deliberately decides not to. A nonconforming beha
by badfrog 8y ago
> Observers must believe the nonconforming individual is both aware of the norm and able to conform to it, but deliberately decides not to. A nonconforming behavior that seems unintentional or dictated by lack of a better alternative—such as ragged clothes on a homeless person—will not lead to a positive impression.
This part is super interesting. You need to be able to wear the baseball cap and jeans while letting people know that you _could_ be wearing a fancy suit if you cared about their norms.
- golergka 8y agoIt's not about the absence of taste, it's about the opposite of taste – is much more pronounced and intentional Also, this send to be a great quote: https://youtu.be/FlzZhGr8G9w https://youtu.be/FlzZhGr8G9w