I make a distinction between accepting what's out of one's control (in it's immediacy) and dealing with injustice or undesirable situations. Such that, I don't

I make a distinction between accepting what's out of one's control (in it's immediacy) and dealing with injustice or undesirable situations. Such that, I don't accept bullshit. But shit happens. I've found this is a relatively low-stress approach. My vehicle was hit in a parking lot, with no information left and no camera capture - the appropriate response for me is "whatever". Had I caught the person in action though, I would have pursued it to the extent I could, as a matter of course.