It's not about avoiding suffering, but rather analyzing the situation to determine what is and is not in your control within your own free will. One thing about

It's not about avoiding suffering, but rather analyzing the situation to determine what is and is not in your control within your own free will. One thing about suffering is that it is relative, it's possible to compare but never possible to truly understand, we after all only can feel our own emotions. Finding meaning in that suffering is also the means to continue, it is in itself an achievement that no other human can compare, because it is your own.