That's a terrible situation. I'm very sorry for your loss. My father has conveyed to me some enormously valuable things over the years. When his time comes, I

That's a terrible situation. I'm very sorry for your loss. My father has conveyed to me some enormously valuable things over the years. When his time comes, I think a major part of dealing with it, for me, will be both preserving these things and passing them on. If you can put to paper some of the wisdom he's given to you, and then spread that to others, I'm sure you'd be doing him proud. And beyond that, I'm sure you'd be doing something beneficial for yourself and for us all. Good luck.