> My first real experience with depression occurred when I was 25. I had recently separated from my ex-wife, and our divorce was pending. > My ex-wife had a tu

> My first real experience with depression occurred when I was 25. I had recently separated from my ex-wife, and our divorce was pending. > My ex-wife had a tumultuous upbringing — her mother walked out on the family when she was eight, and her father died when she was 19, leaving her effectively the head of her household which included two younger brothers. She was at a time of great need, and we decided to get married because we were deeply in love, and I wanted to contribute to her stability. Incredible amount of red flags here for a working marriage. I'm sorry this happened to OP, but I'm really surprised his parents didn't try to stop this way before it happened.