Sorry its paywalled and german: http://www.spiegel.de/plus/alkoholgeschaedigte-adoptivkinder-von-unserer-familie-ist-nichts-uebrig-a-00000000-0002-0001-0000-000

Sorry its paywalled and german: http://www.spiegel.de/plus/alkoholgeschaedigte-adoptivkinder-von-unserer-familie-ist-nichts-uebrig-a-00000000-0002-0001-0000-000159674416 http://www.spiegel.de/plus/alkoholgeschaedigte-adoptivkinder... Summary of the story: Government knowingly passed retarded children - who destroyed several marriages and familys- simply because that sort of damage is not fixable with love and understanding. You can only tolerate it and adapt your lifestyle to the new member of the family.