How did you become a DESIGNER?

Everyone is looking for a great designer these days- but clearly there are fewer designers than there are opportunities. My question for these designers, 'How did you become a designer?' What advice can you give on: -Books you've read -Websites you follow -Tools you use -Did you got to school or learn on your own? -How long did it take for you to adopt the title of Web Designer? I am sure there are a lot of other questions, but I wanted to start this discussion. It seems like everyone needs a designer - but no one really knows more than - 'Yea that looks great! You are a great designer!'