> Wisdom ... tends to not generalize as well as we would like. Ain't that the truth! I should maybe make it clear -- I'm not really asking for advice. Rather,

> Wisdom ... tends to not generalize as well as we would like. Ain't that the truth! I should maybe make it clear -- I'm not really asking for advice. Rather, I would find it very valuable to read how a variety of people have answered this question for themselves. There is an inevitable bias to what we can observe other people doing: if I decide to show up to the gym, or to some social activity, or whatever, then I can see other people who have made the same decision. But one doesn't really get the opportunity to see firsthand how people spend their downtime.