> ... to make my partner and her daughter's lives better, in many ways, so easily, seemed a very good reason. By obeying the "boyfriend is a kind of shameful,

> ... to make my partner and her daughter's lives better, in many ways, so easily, seemed a very good reason. By obeying the "boyfriend is a kind of shameful, bad thing for a woman" logic one becomes responsible of "perpetuating" this backward, hurtful culture.