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What matters is if it is wrong or not, not who says it.

• diminoten 8y ago
  Yes, hence the "is enablist shit"... And no, being lumped in with pedophiles matters. I am trying to warn him who he sounds like, not making a rational argument against his position. It's up to him to decide if he wants to sound like a pedophile.
  • robbrown451 8y ago
    Well I'm talking about how I prioritize decisions about protecting my own daughter from harm from others, not about whether it is ok for me to look at / think about other people's daughters. Given that, if I sound like a pedophile, to me that says more about the listener than the speaker.
    • diminoten 8y ago
      Probably, but the listener may also be a judge, or the parents of the kids your daughter plays with, or someone else who has a material effect on the quality of your life.
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      • robbrown451 8y ago
        Yup, spent my time in front of judges. Self represented, up against nasty lawyers, solid week long trial. If this was a thing that could be used against me, I assure you, it would have. It wasn't, and I was awarded primary custody.
        • diminoten 8y ago
          Okay cool, how can I get in touch with your ex then and let her know about this conversation?
          • robbrown451 8y ago
            Not gonna post it here, but contact me rjbrown at gmail and I'll give you her email and her lawyer's email. Knock yourself out.
            • diminoten 8y ago
              It's weird how far you're okay with going here, honestly this makes me concerned there's an issue more than your original comment. All I said was "be careful" and now you're giving me your ex's lawyer's contact info. What a weird escalation! This can only go badly for you, I hope you realize...