You defended "Should we allow people a choice or establish dictatorship in important social issues?" with the caveat "if a community decides" its not a dictator

You defended "Should we allow people a choice or establish dictatorship in important social issues?" with the caveat "if a community decides" its not a dictatorship. That is implying, the community gets to decide violation of somebody's body rights else they must leave the community (regardless of whether or not they chose to be part of it, and if there was any cost to leaving.)