The guy appears to come to the realization that he causes more conflict than necessary. The purpose of code reviews is to get quality code. Quality code makes

The guy appears to come to the realization that he causes more conflict than necessary. The purpose of code reviews is to get quality code. Quality code makes the project work. But why do we work on projects to begin with? To benefit people. This guy is realizing the conflict between the two goals of getting quality code but also serving people. People need criticism to improve, but it needs to be constructive, otherwise the fragile human psyche inside of every person may not recover.