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So when my two sisters were plastering their walls with very good looking males to which they masturbated, it was making it harder for me as a male to be percie

So when my two sisters were plastering their walls with very good looking males to which they masturbated, it was making it harder for me as a male to be percieved as being equal ? Or the fanservice aimed at females in current-day shows like Riverdale where these hot guys throw off their shirts at the hint of an opportunity ? This idea that it is somehow wrong to appreciate and find pleasure in the physical appearance of people is something I find very hard to understand. Are we going to ban makeup ?

xanipher 8y ago
This is not about personal "pleasure in the physical appearance", but about the culture where using Playboy photos in a professional cobtext doesn't raise any eyebrows.
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underwater 8y ago
Fair question. I would say the primary difference is that in most workplaces men are seen as being competent, and being male is not a disadvantage or put you in a minority. There are undoubtedly professions where stereotypes about men would be harmful. For example if a man wants to become a flight attendant, nurse, or a school teacher. Also consider examples outside of work, like dating. The tall, handsome, muscular guy is more likely to be perceived as desirable even though those traits don't necessarily correlate with what makes a good boyfriend. A man in search of a partner might feel objectified if his potential partner had posters of good-looking men up on her wall.
- mial 8y ago
  Actually, it turns out that even in woman-dominated professions, being a man is advantageous. [1] [1] The Glass Escalator: Hidden Advantages for Men in the "Female" Professions https://www.jstor.org/stable/3096961 https://www.jstor.org/stable/3096961
ChoGGi 8y ago
where these hot guys throw off their shirts at the hint of an opportunity ? I don't know why, but I'm reminded of https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=spwTDpJ0-eY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=spwTDpJ0-eY

xanipher 8y ago

This is not about personal "pleasure in the physical appearance", but about the culture where using Playboy photos in a professional cobtext doesn't raise any eyebrows.

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underwater 8y ago

Fair question. I would say the primary difference is that in most workplaces men are seen as being competent, and being male is not a disadvantage or put you in a minority. There are undoubtedly professions where stereotypes about men would be harmful. For example if a man wants to become a flight attendant, nurse, or a school teacher. Also consider examples outside of work, like dating. The tall, handsome, muscular guy is more likely to be perceived as desirable even though those traits don't necessarily correlate with what makes a good boyfriend. A man in search of a partner might feel objectified if his potential partner had posters of good-looking men up on her wall.

mial 8y ago
Actually, it turns out that even in woman-dominated professions, being a man is advantageous. [1] [1] The Glass Escalator: Hidden Advantages for Men in the "Female" Professions https://www.jstor.org/stable/3096961 https://www.jstor.org/stable/3096961

ChoGGi 8y ago

where these hot guys throw off their shirts at the hint of an opportunity ? I don't know why, but I'm reminded of https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=spwTDpJ0-eY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=spwTDpJ0-eY