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So, where are you right now confronting assholes that are bullying other people? It is really cheap to say that other people should just confront people who ar
by zAy0LfpBZLC8mAC 8y ago
So, where are you right now confronting assholes that are bullying other people?
It is really cheap to say that other people should just confront people who are assholes towards in order to justify that it's not your problem to deal with.
- imgabe 8y agoIt is really cheap to demand that everyone else fight your battles for you. I mean, sure, I'd love to play kindergarten teacher and run around making sure everyone is nice to each other, but I've got my own life here to live, you know? Actually, I wouldn't love to do that, it sounds exhausting, and if you won't do it on your own behalf, why should I? For my part, I treat everyone as fairly as I know how and I expect others to do the same.
- zAy0LfpBZLC8mAC 8y ago> It is really cheap to demand that everyone else fight your battles for you. Noone is demanding that. You are demanding that people fight the battles even though they don't want to. So, if your demand is that the battle should be fought, it is up to you to fight it, or to keep your demands out of other people's lives. > but I've got my own life here to live, you know? You might be surprised, but other people have their own life to live as well. So stop telling them that they should be fighting a battle they don't want to fight, just because you are ideologically opposed to how they deal with the problem that they are facing. > Actually, I wouldn't love to do that, it sounds exhausting So, what is your justification for demanding that other people do this exhausting work? > and if you won't do it on your own behalf, why should I? Noone says that you should. But if you don't, then don't tell them how they have to deal with their problem.