> Again, this is not a problem that can be solved by hiding, and living your life having to tiptoe around core parts of your identity so that idiots won't be ru

> Again, this is not a problem that can be solved by hiding, and living your life having to tiptoe around core parts of your identity so that idiots won't be rude? That is a miserable way to live. And yet, it has been and is being used successfully by people. Sure is it miserable, but it is a lot less miserable than being killed or out of a job without the money to move and without a social support network. As long as you are not the one who is funding every oppressed person's move to a better place, your argument is simply authoritarian bullshit, where you are trying to dictate how other people solve their problems for purely ideological reasons and without consideration of the costs that has to them.