> implying that you should be working your ass off for those 8. TFA is saying you have a budget of 8 hours to allocate. The article explicitly states that rela

> implying that you should be working your ass off for those 8. TFA is saying you have a budget of 8 hours to allocate. The article explicitly states that relationships often consume a large chunk of that budget. It is descriptive, not prescriptive.