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I like to think that when I see such really nice behaviour, I should supply positive reinforcement since I know how much such things can matter to people. Eg I
by retSava 8y ago
I like to think that when I see such really nice behaviour, I should supply positive reinforcement since I know how much such things can matter to people. Eg I had a really nice commuter bus ride, when about to go off, I went to the driver and said thanks, I enjoyed the ride, it was very smooth etc. I could tell this person took pride and enjoyment in doing it. I also called his employer and gave praise (using the bus number), hopefully this is reflected professionally for him too.
So you don't have to be a user to show appreciation ;)
- kossae 8y agoBut weren’t you a user of the bus system in the scenario you laid out as well?
- retSava 8y ago....that's true! :) edit: and re-reading my comment I feel it can come across like a manipulative sociopath comment, but I can assure you all that's not what I am. Though, that's exactly what a manipulative sociopath would say.
- kossae 8y agoNot at all! I think those actions were very kind.
- asudosandwich 8y agoAfter our meal of takeout BBQ last week I called the joint, which was brand new, and thanked them for how good everything was. As a shy telephone-allergic introvert I’d never done that before, but I’m glad I did!
- retSava 8y agoAgree, it feels good doing it. :)