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My point is that losing your composure is undignified, let them be the angry ones, they should understand that you have lost nothing and it should eat away at t
by faissaloo 8y ago
My point is that losing your composure is undignified, let them be the angry ones, they should understand that you have lost nothing and it should eat away at them. Giving a 'fuck you' is in a way providing closure for them.
- softawre 8y agoTotally agree. It might feel good to drop the f-bomb on them but it's never in your best interest.
- int_19h 8y agoSo, basically, don't do it to hurt them more? What if you want to provide a closure for yourself, and don't care about them?
- faissaloo 8y agoExactly. You should be good enough at what you do that you are never the one in need of closure.
- int_19h 8y agoClosure is an emotional thing that is not necessarily (in fact, I'd say not usually) connected to "being good enough" in any meaningful sense. If anything, it can be the opposite - when you realize that you have been treated in a way that is far beneath the value that you were providing, the realization of that fact can very well lead to a "fuck you".