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A good adult thing to do is to start recognising that different people have different ways of dealing with situations. A good adult thing to do is to start unde
by justinjlynn 8y ago
A good adult thing to do is to start recognising that different people have different ways of dealing with situations. A good adult thing to do is to start understanding that there is no one absolute answer to almost any question one could ask - including, but not limited to, the question: "Is it appropriate to tell someone 'fuck you' on the way out the door?".
- magpi3 8y agoAdults realize that actions have consequences. Saying fuck you to someone might make me feel better in the moment, but what would it give me in the long run? I would be giving others the chance to view me as childish, unprofessional, and uncivil. Where is the gain in that?
- tasuki 8y agoIf you were childish, unprofessional, and uncivil, it would be the honest thing to do. Not everything has to be done for personal gain. On a related note, I'd much rather be told an honest "fuck you" than a dishonest "it was good working with you". The former is an opportunity for me to reflect.