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Were you consciously looking for it or did it turn out this way by accident?

• noir_lord 8y ago
  Consciously looking, I had two offers one for where I am and another for more pay (about 16% base but I get a bonus that offsets a lot of that) The other one was for a larger company in a big open office. It wasn't even a choice tbh I can't articulate how much I loathe open offices.
  • kreetx 8y ago
    It's good to hear how well how it has worked out for you! My situation isn't exactly as good, but it's getting there I'm hoping. The current job I have started out as part time so that I could work on my side project. This didn't work out but then I suddenly got more trust and freedom for doing things my own way, and now it's much better.
    • noir_lord 8y ago
      If I could go back and say one thing to 18 year old me it would be "it's better to seek forgiveness than ask permission", every single time I've made the bold choice it's either worked out or I've learnt something from it. I far more regret the things I didn't do. It's good they are rewarding trust earned with more trust, that's rare in a lot of work places.
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      • kreetx 8y ago
        Same here on the bold choices. My two "mistakes" (not actually regretting -- everybody has their own path) were staying at the academy too long, and secondly not asking at all, but expecting. Not smart, and actually rather neurotic. What I've found out just in the last few years is that by making yourself valuable and then asking for what you really want will actually bring the thing to you (if it's reasonable). Preparing the question and paths forward for both outcomes is a way better strategy than losing hope and blowing up.