> And I certainly wished I had been more mentally prepared to handle its impact. People are never properly prepared for tragedy. That is the difference betwee

> And I certainly wished I had been more mentally prepared to handle its impact. People are never properly prepared for tragedy. That is the difference between trauma and sadness. No less, these things happen. Trauma lives in the past. When you reflect on these past experiences they can define you or become you. That is the difficult choice you must confront when dwelling on these memories. With effort you can choose to let the pain of past memories go, if willing. The acceptance of such choices is the nature of perseverance.