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One thing is to get married

• alimw 8y ago
  My bet is that those "issues and events on multiple frontiers in life" came from that sort of area in the first place.
• jackhack 8y ago
  In a word, no. If one thinks that marriage will simplify life and reduce stresses, well, I have some bad news for you. Don't get me wrong -- marriage is/can-be wonderful, but you owe it to your partner to bring your mentally-healthy self to the table, not to burden someone else with your problems because new challenges will result. Life is struggle, and having someone to lean on is wonderful.
  • justin_oaks 8y ago
    I agree. Marriage brings new stresses, but you shouldn't think that someone else will fix you if you're broken. I like what one of my coworkers said: Marriage can bring higher highs and lower lows, but the average is still better. Of course, all of that is nullified if you both don't have the commitment and put in the effort to make it work.