> Sexual control is universally directed primarily towards women. Is it primary, or is it universal? > I now live in an area with a more positive view of sexu

> Sexual control is universally directed primarily towards women. Is it primary, or is it universal? > I now live in an area with a more positive view of sexuality, and this carries over to acceptance of homosexuality, gender nonconforming behavior, etc. And I live in a society where there is just about every kind of attitude toward any one of those things represented, in every combination you could imagine. Not sure you can draw the kind of crisp black and white distinctions you'd like to, on this topic. If you take a look at more societies than the handful you've encountered, you'll have a hard time mapping your model of social attitudes toward sex and gender roles cleanly to many of them.