This is a good point I think — but I don’t find myself biased to perceive buying groceries as entering into an adversarial relationship with my grocery store —

This is a good point I think — but I don’t find myself biased to perceive buying groceries as entering into an adversarial relationship with my grocery store — maybe because the relationship is transactional and tends to end immediately after the transaction... Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t think there is as direct a conflict between me and the grocery store — me being happy with a particular purchase is not generally associated with the grocery store being “unhappy” that a particular product “works out for me” when I consume it ...