Every major Christian church teaches that enjoying sex outside of marriage is a sin and furthermore teach that it's sinful to direct your sexual desire toward a

Every major Christian church teaches that enjoying sex outside of marriage is a sin and furthermore teach that it's sinful to direct your sexual desire toward anyone (or anything) other than your husband or wife. They shame the expression and even the feeling of sexual desire that doesn't fall within those bounds, teaching that the sex drive is something to be "controlled" or completely squelched until/unless you're able to express it within the bounds of marriage.