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Should we consider the time that you said the N word as an edgy teen in middle school? It's apart of your history. Different unrelated events aren't context.
by monksy 8y ago
Should we consider the time that you said the N word as an edgy teen in middle school? It's apart of your history.
Different unrelated events aren't context.
- eropple 8y agoWe certainly should take into context something like that, yes. For me, that particular thing didn't happen--I was never quite so far to the right wing as to think racial slurs were anything but unacceptable--but I was a shitty libertarian know-it-all. I've never been shitty enough to out and deadname trans people like Milo fucking Yiannopoulos, and I've never been shitty enough to cape up for bad-science racists like Charles Murray, but I've been shitty. I said things that made people mad (because they made me feel superior) and hurt people (because they intellectually made sense, because I was so rational and also had never had a hard day in my life). Then I grew up, then I realized I was being shitty, and I stopped. And since I have made a point of standing up for the right things, instead, while not ducking that I too have been shitty. That's more context, and that context, eventually and with hard work, does balance the scales. It just isn't that complicated.