"If these people can't get enough human contact, we failed them." These are adults, not children. Let's take responsibility for taking care of ourselves. There

"If these people can't get enough human contact, we failed them." These are adults, not children. Let's take responsibility for taking care of ourselves. There is no moral basis for blaming others if we individually fail at that (as long as others haven't done anything against us), as you imply. I also think we need more critique on gratuitous blaming/shaming. It does no good to allow abusive attitude like this, even when's addressed towards a diffuse target as the society at large.