Hidden in your questions is a presupposition of a well-defined "you", a human essence that decides/benefits as an indivisible whole. As that EA Poe story skilf

Hidden in your questions is a presupposition of a well-defined "you", a human essence that decides/benefits as an indivisible whole. As that EA Poe story skilfully anticipated, and as our modernity puts more and more into practice, "you" is just a chimera, a leaky abstraction. It appears the questions of tomorrow will be around "what's the entity exercising agency" more than "how much agency". Surrogate matchmakers are but a taste of things to come.