You are conflating remaining married with happiness. It is just as possible that seeing more people increases your odds of realizing you dobt have to "settle".

You are conflating remaining married with happiness. It is just as possible that seeing more people increases your odds of realizing you dobt have to "settle". That said, I do believe that most people could be happy with one another with the right mindset. I just dont think the data you presented proves the cause of urban divorce rates.