This is all so terribly foreign to me... almost nothing I read here makes sense. In the Romania I grew up in if you had serious trouble with other kids you just

This is all so terribly foreign to me... almost nothing I read here makes sense. In the Romania I grew up in if you had serious trouble with other kids you just talked to the teachers or your parents, and they'd solve the problem. Worst case would be a parent to parent chat. I think I was under 10 when I upset a girl who lived next door. Don't remember really what I did, but I sure as hell remember her father chasing me three blocks, only to tell me very gently that it wasn't nice and he'll have to talk to my parents if I did it again.