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I’ve simply come to believe that online dating is the safest way for people to evaluate partners. There is demonstrated intent on both ends. It’s like google’s
by perfmode 8y ago
I’ve simply come to believe that online dating is the safest way for people to evaluate partners. There is demonstrated intent on both ends. It’s like google’s search intent being the value. Online dating provides safety through... intent of intimacy I guess
- hanging 8y agoOnline dating sites unfortunately have become a convenient fraud vector.
- King-Aaron 8y agoAll I ever find with dating sites is an endless stream of bots and constant 'seen'/'deleted' receipts. My feeling is I don't have enough "marketable" photos of myself to make the few real users out there take notice among the endless stream of spam they must get. I end up feeling that the psychological impact from 'playing that game' results in diminishing returns, so fall back to just doing my usual hobbies in the real world and hope in the back of my mind that one day someone might find the things that I do interesting.
- fucking_tragedy 8y ago> I’ve simply come to believe that online dating is the safest way for people to evaluate partners. I came to the opposite conclusion. If your potential partner can overpower you, then you have to worry about being assaulted or murdered by a complete stranger before you even get the chance to evaluate them. Sure, you might meet a drifter at a bar that no one knows and thus can get away with harming you more easily, but online dating significantly lowers the barrier of entry for malevolent actors, especially those who wish to remain somewhat anonymous.