I don't know. I'd never considered this subject before the OP posted it. I'm a husband and father, and I respect my family, and I have friends outside of work,

I don't know. I'd never considered this subject before the OP posted it. I'm a husband and father, and I respect my family, and I have friends outside of work, so one of the last things I would ever want to do is drink at work or after hours with my coworkers. Feels like a non issue, a consequence of working with too many manchildren. If you don't like the brodrinking then don't be friends with them and find a better job.