Are you working overtime? In this case you are making a choice even if it's unconcious. For me the biggest turning point was when I decided that I don't want t

Are you working overtime? In this case you are making a choice even if it's unconcious. For me the biggest turning point was when I decided that I don't want to get promoted, I only want to make wealth by investing my money (even if it's less money). This frees up a lot of time and energy and simplifies life.