Instead of "what do I want to stop doing" frame it as "what would I like to be doing". Get more engaged in something particular. Build your own car, for exampl

Instead of "what do I want to stop doing" frame it as "what would I like to be doing". Get more engaged in something particular. Build your own car, for example. But that might just be me. It's possible, that if you have free time to idle away reading, that your work isn't occupying as much of your time as you'd like. Shift that free time usage to something you find more personally rewarding or that involves more in person social interaction. It's tough. Bear in mind this is my own take and might not reflect the reality of your situation.