Sorry for being snarky. But you were one of the neutrals, yes? You see - everything you said is true, just the order is completely wrong. You see, its impossib

Sorry for being snarky. But you were one of the neutrals, yes? You see - everything you said is true, just the order is completely wrong. You see, its impossible to do what you proposed as an act of assertion. Since one would need to already be confident and assertive. And that's just why its so hard to do if you're the weak bullied kid. You'd need to have solved the long term problem, before you can even think to tackle the short term.