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Suffering is subjective, contextual and personnal. Suffering linked to attachment to something can be great, not matter the something. It's the attachment that
by sametmax 8y ago
Suffering is subjective, contextual and personnal.
Suffering linked to attachment to something can be great, not matter the something. It's the attachment that matters, and it's not produced by the nature of the thing, but by the experience the person had of the thing.
It's created suffering anyway, so the amount you generate is up to you, and is not related to the loss.
- pas 8y agocreated? well, yeah, oxytocin is a hell of a drug. sure, you can shut it down, process it, ride it out, walk it off and whatever, but if there was attachment, memories, associations with places, events, other persons, or even with music, activities, etc. it can and usually will get emotional. Some people are quick to get over it, some will die - literally - grieving.