So, the gist that I got from this was, "There's nothing that you can do about it, so you may as well just have fun." I can't decide which is the more dishearte

So, the gist that I got from this was, "There's nothing that you can do about it, so you may as well just have fun." I can't decide which is the more disheartening part: That this is a reality in which we live in or that someone's suggesting that we just accept it and try to have fun operating inside of it. I'm going to go look at photos of puppies now...