The best explanation I can provide is one that won't provide you much immediate info or relief. You and your partner would want to see a psychologist or PsyD, p

The best explanation I can provide is one that won't provide you much immediate info or relief. You and your partner would want to see a psychologist or PsyD, preferably with both a clinical and diagnostic background for counseling. At some point if your partner is NPD you're going to be made aware of it. Everything until that point will have been the easy part.