I like the advice to not overthink it or try to write a perfect letter. I have this same problem, especially when it comes to condolence cards. I recently signe

I like the advice to not overthink it or try to write a perfect letter. I have this same problem, especially when it comes to condolence cards. I recently signed one with several coworkers for another coworker and I tried so hard to write something profound that I ended up writing something that I felt was really awkward to read. I should have just said what I felt: "I'm so very sorry for your loss."