> Counterpoint: chronically stressed children are left with frantic nervous systems and don't learn how to self-soothe. The counter-counterpoint is that this i

> Counterpoint: chronically stressed children are left with frantic nervous systems and don't learn how to self-soothe. The counter-counterpoint is that this is very much a goldilocks things. Too little stress and you don't build resilience, too much stress is just plain abuse.