Part of your answer is reasonable, I feel this a bit too. But now you and others have a real opportunity to discuss the issue here on neutral ground and I feel

Part of your answer is reasonable, I feel this a bit too. But now you and others have a real opportunity to discuss the issue here on neutral ground and I feel it is rude to just dismiss the invitation to provide actual examples. Even my favourite elitist deletionism club: Stack Overflow, has been changing their ways lately it seems and are accepting requests to undelete.