In my understanding saying "that's a shame" is equivalent to "that's really too bad," and not, "you should be ashamed of your self." Maybe my interpretation is

In my understanding saying "that's a shame" is equivalent to "that's really too bad," and not, "you should be ashamed of your self." Maybe my interpretation isn't that common? (pause to google) Apparently it is the common accepted meaning: https://www.ldoceonline.com/dictionary/it-s-a-shame-what-a-shame-etc https://www.ldoceonline.com/dictionary/it-s-a-shame-what-a-s...