We are about 5 years older. We went the opposite direction. House is a fantasy and we have a kid in a single bedroom apartment. My wife’s salary pays for daycar

We are about 5 years older. We went the opposite direction. House is a fantasy and we have a kid in a single bedroom apartment. My wife’s salary pays for daycare and I pay rent. That’s how we afford to live in the Bay Area. When she starts walking we will have to take a look at our options, but the bay is looking less attractive for our late 30s.