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It can go both ways. I am being stalked and experiencing a pattern of targeted harassment, assault (both attempted and succeeded) and other crime. It's left me

It can go both ways. I am being stalked and experiencing a pattern of targeted harassment, assault (both attempted and succeeded) and other crime. It's left me in dire straits. I just recently saw on the news a woman talking about this happening to women, saying: "women experience harassment and assault and are unable to continue their careers and have been driven from their homes." While that's exactly what has happened to me, I dont find any advocates. Especially on the news. In fact, people assume these things cant happen to white, nerdy guys. It's really overwhelming. It must have obviously been even more hopeless for people when these kinds of things happened to people within a society of not just targeted hate, but institutionalized prejudice as well. It's good that's changed for the better for those people. But here I am and I'm not really sure what the best way to get help is.

wallace_f 8y ago
Who in God's name would downvote this? It went from several + to 0.
- Kye 8y ago
  Probably people who don't believe men can experience these things allied with people who believe men can experience them but see it as un-manning them. Humans are weird. Have an upvote.
sizzle 8y ago
Please consult with authorities and record all instances of stalking/harassment. Protect yourself by all legal means possible and educate yourself on self defense strategies that can protect your life and keep you out of jail. Post on the subreddit r/legaladvice for some actionable advice. Sorry you are going through this, I hope our justice system can help you.
- wallace_f 8y ago
  If anyone has connections to media or any civil rights groups and is interested in my story I will add a way to contact me in my profile. I had to move across the world and a couple weeks after arrival, people started telling me there was a man who was claiming to be my father that was looking for me (his description was very far from my father's). That was not an isolated incident. There's a very long list of unjust and crazy things happening to me. Everyone asks, what would be the motive? This is why for so long I didnt recognize this was happening to me. Because there was no rational reason for it to. It's hard to explain, but starting when I was a minor, I experienced a series of outrageous injustices from wealthy individuals. I think the motives developed out of these liabilities and it grew from there into a collection of people, ideas, and institutions which had wronged me. I'm guessing. Some events may be entirely unrelated to each other. But even a literal nazi like Richard Spencer went, what, years before someone punched him? It would be extroardinarily strange that without motive or liability for anyone to have this much obsession with what a normal person. I dont have many friends and most people dont want to associate with Thomas Paines, let alone someone with lifetime bullying problems without even an apparent virtuous cause or source of prejudice. And unfortunately, a lot of people are inclined to think that if such negativity afflicts you then you must have done something to deserve it. Once I started publishing my self-recordings of aggresses the attacks basically went from common occurences to zero. Suggesting some orchestration, or an extroardinary coincidence. I'm fearful of seeking help because it could potentially instigate an escalated retaliatory response. What else to do? Living my life on the run is obviously just a dead end. I'm lucky to have the physical and mental capability to survive thus far both physically and financially, but in both senses I'm already pushing the limits.
  - sizzle 8y ago
    Please post your story on the subreddit r/legaladvice for some actionable advice. www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice There are legal professionals there that will anonymously give you their advice on what to do to better your situation. If you want to be private, post from a public place like Starbucks.
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Kye 8y ago
Here's a good community for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/ It avoids the rabid anti-feminism of way too many male-centric spaces, while also avoiding the de-centering of men that tends to happen in more moderate spaces (remember The Good Men Project?).

wallace_f 8y ago

Who in God's name would downvote this? It went from several + to 0.

Kye 8y ago
Probably people who don't believe men can experience these things allied with people who believe men can experience them but see it as un-manning them. Humans are weird. Have an upvote.

sizzle 8y ago

Please consult with authorities and record all instances of stalking/harassment. Protect yourself by all legal means possible and educate yourself on self defense strategies that can protect your life and keep you out of jail. Post on the subreddit r/legaladvice for some actionable advice. Sorry you are going through this, I hope our justice system can help you.

wallace_f 8y ago
If anyone has connections to media or any civil rights groups and is interested in my story I will add a way to contact me in my profile. I had to move across the world and a couple weeks after arrival, people started telling me there was a man who was claiming to be my father that was looking for me (his description was very far from my father's). That was not an isolated incident. There's a very long list of unjust and crazy things happening to me. Everyone asks, what would be the motive? This is why for so long I didnt recognize this was happening to me. Because there was no rational reason for it to. It's hard to explain, but starting when I was a minor, I experienced a series of outrageous injustices from wealthy individuals. I think the motives developed out of these liabilities and it grew from there into a collection of people, ideas, and institutions which had wronged me. I'm guessing. Some events may be entirely unrelated to each other. But even a literal nazi like Richard Spencer went, what, years before someone punched him? It would be extroardinarily strange that without motive or liability for anyone to have this much obsession with what a normal person. I dont have many friends and most people dont want to associate with Thomas Paines, let alone someone with lifetime bullying problems without even an apparent virtuous cause or source of prejudice. And unfortunately, a lot of people are inclined to think that if such negativity afflicts you then you must have done something to deserve it. Once I started publishing my self-recordings of aggresses the attacks basically went from common occurences to zero. Suggesting some orchestration, or an extroardinary coincidence. I'm fearful of seeking help because it could potentially instigate an escalated retaliatory response. What else to do? Living my life on the run is obviously just a dead end. I'm lucky to have the physical and mental capability to survive thus far both physically and financially, but in both senses I'm already pushing the limits.
- sizzle 8y ago
  Please post your story on the subreddit r/legaladvice for some actionable advice. www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice There are legal professionals there that will anonymously give you their advice on what to do to better your situation. If you want to be private, post from a public place like Starbucks.
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Kye 8y ago

Here's a good community for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/ It avoids the rabid anti-feminism of way too many male-centric spaces, while also avoiding the de-centering of men that tends to happen in more moderate spaces (remember The Good Men Project?).