> but you don't apply this same litmus to yourself. You could walk across the street. You could [...] Please stop making assumptions. I'm actually walking acr

> but you don't apply this same litmus to yourself. You could walk across the street. You could [...] Please stop making assumptions. I'm actually walking across the street, every single time. I let it go, every single time. At the end of the day, it's me who's going threw the loop "hell, he could have asked if it was ok at least - nevermind I won't make a fuss", while in those heads its "NEED NICOTIN RITNOW - GET NICOTTIIIIIIN". > I find it odd that you have one set of standards for how others should treat your desires and a completely separate one for the way you handle theirs. You're wrong. I'm handling their desire very dearly: I walk away and let them smoking how they desire. And then I'm thinking privately (and publicly here) that this is very unfair indeed, because they don't care about my own standard. I don't think it's worth pursuing this "you don't see the beam in your own eye" kind of argumentation, because in this very specific case my eye is pristine.