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Interesting! What sort of things did you change in your life that led to your happiness?
by goldenchrome 8y ago
Interesting! What sort of things did you change in your life that led to your happiness?
- MRD85 8y agoSo I make decisions that will lead to a path of happiness, I look at my life through questions like "what do I want my life to be like in X years?". I wanted to be a software developer so I've been studying CS formally for 2 years now and I'll be changing careers in either 12 or 24 months depending on some factors. I put in more efforts to maintain a social network. I'm introverted and really enjoy time by myself but I realise that I'm actually happier when I spend time regularly with friends. The difference between solitude and alone is determined by if you want to be by yourself. I was enjoying solitude until I was diagnosed, then I suddenly felt alone. I don't have anxiety anymore. This wasn't deliberate, I simply stopped worrying about things after the whole cancer scare. I'm alive and healthy, so even if things go bad then I'm still in a better spot than I could be.