I can't say which is best, I can only say I use Prosody and am very happy with it. Here's a howto on setting it up: https://homebrewserver.club/configuring-a-m

I can't say which is best, I can only say I use Prosody and am very happy with it. Here's a howto on setting it up: https://homebrewserver.club/configuring-a-modern-xmpp-server.html https://homebrewserver.club/configuring-a-modern-xmpp-server...