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It sounds like there's some hope in that she will free up in a half year. I'm sure it's going to be hard but at the end it will seem like it was a short time. S
by CodeWriter23 8y ago
It sounds like there's some hope in that she will free up in a half year. I'm sure it's going to be hard but at the end it will seem like it was a short time. So, how to make the best of that journey is the objective...
It seems like you might have a little more flexibility in your schedule than she...Can you get in front of her schedule and then make some "NO" blocks in your time where you simply say you're not available? (That means NO to anything else, even meeting with a potential investor) Even a 2-3 hour block per week will give you some time to connect. If you're not organically finding opportunities to couple up, I suggest prioritizing some of this "appointment" time for sex. Connecting physically will help you two make it through tough times like you are facing now. I'm speaking from experience on that. I'd also suggest perhaps if possible to find a set time every day to have a 10 or 15 minute conversation. Just a "how's your day" supportive intimate connection. Set a timer for the call, and you both get back to the order of the day when it expires. You both will have to be disciplined in keeping it on the highlights and not diving into problems that can wait.
- raleigh_user 8y agoYep. She will be way more free in next 6 months. I have a little more flexibility although there are fires that cause me to miss things. Thanks for the feedback. Everyone else here who says "quit" or "work wouldn't make you make these choices" isn't understanding. We're definitely not perfect and work does take over our lives but we both love it. Just have to find a better way to manage the little time we have until her schedule is more free