Another hypothetical: 4. The guy is gay and doesn't want to be inappropriately touched by a woman because he's attracted only to men. I think that, in general

Another hypothetical: 4. The guy is gay and doesn't want to be inappropriately touched by a woman because he's attracted only to men. I think that, in general, men getting sexually assaulted by women is something we take less seriously because, yes, as you say, men want sex, they aren't so bothered and because in general men have power (physical and otherwise) over women. But in most cases there are good reasons to challenge those assumptions, which we should do.