I think calling him out publicly by name was too much, and that she should have filed a restraining order or charges against him if she thought it was that trau

I think calling him out publicly by name was too much, and that she should have filed a restraining order or charges against him if she thought it was that traumatic. Again, not excusing what he did, it was stupid as all get-up, but he was probably plastered and thought he was being adventurous. Also, if a woman did this to a man, he would have said "whoa whoa whoa, now... no thank you" and walked away, and nothing would have been said.